Elder abuse

Violence is when someone does something that hurts or makes another person feel bad. Senior citizens are more likely to experience violence than younger generations.

More likely to be subjected to violence.

Research shows that older people are more likely to experience violence than younger people.

One of the reasons is because older individuals often experience a great deal of social isolation. The isolation can be used against them, especially if the abuser is a caregiver or a family member. They might fear or are threatened that if they expose the abusers, they will be even more isolated.

Types of violence

General violence

  • When someone hurts you, threatens you, harasses you, or humiliates you.
  • When technology is used against you, it is often referred to as digital violence.

Financial abuse

  • When someone defrauds you of your money, steals it, or misuses it.
  • When someone pressures you on how you use your money.
  • When the person who takes care of your finances does not provide you with necessities.
  • When someone makes you sign documents that you do not understand.
  • Read more about financial abuse.

Physical violence

  • When someone physically hurts you. Examples are pinching, punching, holding you, kicking, hitting you or abusing your medication.
  • Signs of physical abuse can be bruises, cuts, unexplained injuries, burns, and poor skin condition.
  • Read more about physical abuse.

Emotional abuse

  • Threats, for example of physical violence, restriction of access to medication and necessary aids or isolation.
  • Humiliation.
  • Accusations.
  • Coercion and control.
  • Isolation.
  • Restrictions on socializing and interacting with others.
  • Degrading speech and prejudice about your gender, sexual orientation, race, age, or anything else that you have no control over.
  • Read more about emotional abuse.

Sexual abuse

  • Groping.
  • Sexual teasing or harassment.
  • Rape. When someone makes you do something sexual that you do not want to do or cannot agree to because of a disability.
  • Read more about sexual abuse.

Neglect

  • When physical care or medication is not conducted properly.
  • For example, when an elderly person is visibly malnourished, suffers from dehydration, is poorly dressed, or is not receiving care due to illness or injury.
  • Read more about neglect.

You can talk online to 112 if you suspect that you are experiencing abuse.

The police improve the service for the elderly who are abused

A big change has taken place in recent years regarding how the police approach abuse cases. In the past, the perpetrators received more attention, but with an effort and education within the police, more attention has since been paid to the victims. A recent report published by the National Commissioner of Police's research department, paints a clear picture of the situation regarding abuse of the elderly, not least with view of the impact of the Coronavirus on the Icelandic community.

Authorities are currently working on various projects to combat abuse of the elderly. The aim is to better protect vulnerable groups of the elderly from abuse and to make it easier for them to get help.

Elder abuse

Animation video that helps explain the different types of elder abuse. What is elder abuse?

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Ólafur

Ólafur is a modest man in his eighties who lives in his own home. One of his grandchildren, Hrafnhildur, often helps him with things that are difficult for him, such as going to the store and paying bills. Ólafur gave Hrafnhildur access to his online bank for this purpose.

A few months later when Ólafur was going to buy himself a new sofa it turned out that Hrafnhildur had regularly transferred money from his account to hers. He does not believe that she has been stealing but when he asks her about this she says she thinks she deserves this and will not pay him back.

Is this abuse?

1717

The Red Cross Helpline 1717 is a phone service and webchat for those who need someone to talk to in confidentiality. They are open 24 hours, and it's free to call.

Bjarkarhlíð

Bjarkarhlíð is a center for people who have experienced abuse. There you get all the support and counseling you need in one place. All assistance is on your terms.

Setustofa hjá Bjarkarhlíð. Hér má sjá þrjá hægindastóla. Tveir eru nær og milli þeirra borð með lampa. Einn er fjær, með borð við hlið sér og hillur þar sem meðal annars er kaffikanna, bollar og nokkur tímarit. Ein planta og standlampi eru við hlið hillunnar.

Bjarmahlíð in Akureyri

Bjarmahlíð is a center for people who have experienced abuse. There you get all the support and counseling you need in one place. All assistance is on your terms.

Abuse in close relationships

Abuse is a form of violence when someone hurts you, or does or says things to make you upset. It is abuse in close relationships when the person abusing is a relative or is closely connected to you. Abuse occurs regardless of gender, age, sexual orientation, ethnicity or any other reason.

Manneskja í fjötrum. Hún er með lokuð augu og er leið á svipinn og heldur þétt utan um sig. Rauður þykkur borði er vafinn utan um hana.

Neglect

It is neglect when a person does not receive the assistance they need in order to feel well.